hidden part of your personality..

i was sitting in my room and thinking about what is necessary for maintaining harmony in the relationships?

we all love to fall in love, love is a feeling which nourishes relationships and make it more beautiful which we never expected. You, me and we all want love in our life we can't live without love. At some point of time we need someone beside us  whom you can share everything, your dreams, goals, weakness and much more. you just'can't live alone whole life, sometime when you are alone or u just rejected by material world at this time you desperately need that someone special by your side. i have already talked much about that someone special  whom you dream every night, whom you feel every time but have you ever thought if you  found your love what will keep your love by your side forever? what is required for keeping flame of love burning forever? many of us never asks these questions while choosing that someone special.

we never ask because we blindly trust on love  and on the person whom we have already given our heart. You all know, many relationships got bitter and vulnerable after sometime, in the beginning we all lost in the world of love where you couldn't find any fault, you just want to love. After sometime when you get to know the person properly then reality suddenly confronted by both of you. suddenly you started  thinking what wrong u did or regretting for the decisions you made in your love life. Here i am talking about a reality which can't be noticed by us in the beginning but when it comes in front of you at that movement you can't change anything, you left with only one option either ignore reality or face it. we all  have to face it one day, the reality i am talking is a hidden personality of a person which  normaly doesn't shown by an individual , it will be exposed later   in the front of people whom with you have been living for a long time and they know each and every detail of your life. Those people are chosen by us called as 'life partners' once your hidden part got revealed it become tougher to deny it. we all have good as well as bad habits in us and many of us afraid from showing negative part of our personality to our loved ones. A person who really loves you will accept you as you are means accepting good and bad habits happily. if you really love someone and want relationship works longer you have to expose your hidden part in the beginning of relationships then when you got married your partner   will able to tolerate your ugly part of personality and love you as he used to.

death..a gift by god

you already got an idea from the title i have given to my article that is death. Ya here i am talking about the most concerning subject in our life or the most unlikable. we all are living continue since we born on this earth, when we born we don't know about what will happen ahead? a toddler comfortably sleeps in    mother's lap without thinking about our future.when we grown up fear of death haunt all of us, we don't want to loose our life, our family, friends some of us holds different perspective towards life they doesn't live in a fear of dying they enjoy every movement of life but fear of loosing loved ones haunts us badly you can't deny it. Suppose member of your family or a person who is closer to you is dying due to illness or from any other reason your heart throbs badly in a  each movement you feel the pain of your loved one, when victim passed away your pain increases rapidly and you just can't stop thinking about that person, you feel something precious  has gone and never come back. You consider a death a loss which cannot be fulfilled ever but the question is why are you calling it a loss, is it really a loss because you were not expecting it? or u didn't know it will ever face by the person you loved. the day we born, day of our death already predicted by the god we can't change our destiny.  'loss' is a phrase is used when it effects our life badly and due to this loss you will never able to live a life again which you used to live. but in this case after demise we again become capable for living a normal life with people around us.It is our tendency to forget a person who is gone and never come back to you despite many of us still crying,sobbing for the dead people who used to live with us sometime ago. Think deeply about it, if we are born we have to leave this earth one day, its a rule made by god and we should have respect it. when human being dies there is something he get rid of, our world is full of wanted and unwanted things, it offers you many choices but the time would come when you will not have any choices you have to accept it(death). when the time finally arrive  you are not longer a resident of this earth, u r leaving your good as well as bad habits, no boundation of ill human body, no thoughts, no feeling just drifting apart from everything you owned, loved, hated. At this time pray to god 'o god i am coming to you, finally it is happening i will not complain for granting  pain to my body for taking soul  out of it, i just want you to provide strength to my people who will cry for me, provide them emotional stability so that they would be able to forget the pain of separation" death is not beautiful gift but its a gift given by god to us because it is made by god, a gift which take your body and convert you into a faultless soul which is going where it has originated.