John's questions

There was a  middle age guy name John  was very depressed and unhappy from his life,  life looking like a burden to him, his wife just left him and children were  grown up so don't bother about him. He did whatever it takes to make  life less painful but  end up being more hopeless towards his life . One fine day he was sitting in his garden looking at  the surroundings and thought there is not a single person in life for sharing his grief,  what is he doing here? why did he married and have family ? what is love and attachment? what is our prime goal? why we born?  why couldn't we just stay happy? what is destiny and luck? why don't we get what we want? why we die? what is soul? and the last question who is god? does he exists? 

He was curious and desperate to know to the answers of all the questions came into his mind. He was ready to find the answers at any cost, his life depend on it  he decide to take a journey far away from home somewhere he could fulfill his desire.
.The place john's found was far away from his house, he was wandering there for hours. After getting exhausted, he settle down in a nearby church and lost in thoughts. who will give the answers? why am i stuck here? is there anyone who can help me?
voice came from his back, he turned around there was a young men standing on the door, he was staring john and said' i know why are you here and what you want' john was shocked, he was trying to collect the memory of this person but failed. Men came towards him,  looking calm and compose seems like a yogi, before he say something john's asked' do i know you guy?' are you priest?
he said' No i am not, but  can solve your queries, you have been carrying for a long time.
John was laughing on him, how can you solve my problems, you don't even know me neither i,i think you are kidding dude. Look at you , you are too young for answering my questions, i am sure you haven't had much experience of life like me, it would be better if you  mind your own business. Men was listening to him quietly, after a long pause he said'yes, we don't know each other neither i have ever met you , when i saw you here in this isolated church where nobody comes except me,this is  first time in years someone from the city has visited here. I am Steve, lives in nearby town, i am a farmer and take care of this church.  you must be thinking how am i gonna help you? people often come here when they are depressed, searching for answers, don't know what to do next? not satisfied in life despite having everything they want in this materialistic world. I was in the same condition few years back, fighting with life, lost everything i had, my parents, friends, lover. john's thought they all died?
NO steve said. they are alive but i found all the answers.
John started taking interest, so john ask me your questions one by one i will answer, but there is a one condition , john asked in desperation 'what?' if your are not satisfied with my answer, you have to give the explanation for each wrong answer but don't interrupt in between. but how can i? if its ok with you shall we start? ok john said

why we born? steve speaks' for fulfilling all desires and dreams. like., marriage, children, money friends etc.

what is our prime goal?
Keep living a materialistic life, without much caring about  others.

what is family, parents friends, children mean to us?
Parents born for taking care of child, so that you can do the same, wife friends, and children make life more blissful and beautiful, they are your real companion for having fun.

what is destiny?
your luck, or how much money you can make? good destiny means you're capable of earning money, fame, friends etc
John was becoming irritated

what is happiness and what are the barriers of happiness?
Its a difficult to answer, its depends on you, where you find happiness? in money, family, friends, fame etc.

last question
does god exists?
I don't think so, maybe only for those who worship  daily according to their religions, go to church, temples. Those who don't do it, God doesn't exits for them

After he ended john shouted' you moron, your all answers are wrong. i am not satisfied with you dude.' he was very angry
Steve said calmly' so give the explanations'
OK i will

we born on this earth not for fulfilling desires, these are our duties, we born for improving and correcting ourselves. After wandering for years finally we get a chance to born as a human being with brain so that we can differentiate between wrong and right.

our prime goal is to live a spiritual life, accept things as it is
 , respect others, give love but don't expect anything in return and the most important thing beware of attachments.

Destiny is nothing, according to Hindu religion its the final result of  your karma from your last birth, it depends on what you did in last birth? does it really matters to you now..its all about how you gonna live your life in present. Hard work could fulfill your basic your needs but if you wish more then only luck, fate or destiny matters.

Family, friends, children these are companions, stay with you as long as you are fulfilling their desires, once you stop they too stop caring for you, So they are not real relationships, cause of grief only because you expect something in return. Its a business

Happiness is the only emotion or feeling you can't buy, you can feel in even in ordinary things. Nature, helping others, meditation, health etc. you can find happiness anywhere regardless of the consequences.

we all die one day. that's what you have to keep in mind, soul never die

God exists or not, i don't know but he want us to follow these simple rules of life. you can feel his presence in a peace of mind. Positive thoughts helps in building tranquility in mind, which stays forever with you, then you don't need relationships or attachments. you can live on your own with a deep connection with god.

THERE IS ONLY ONE RELATIONSHIP WHICH IS THE ONE WITH OUR SELF....WE CAN UNDERSTAND US BETTER THAN OTHERS

Steve was staring at john and smiling...now john' got his answers, Steve did
 nothing, he just made him realize that he always had all the answers,just  needed a little push..

Try to see the world from a different perspective where materialistic desires means nothing to you

hidden part of your personality..

i was sitting in my room and thinking about what is necessary for maintaining harmony in the relationships?

we all love to fall in love, love is a feeling which nourishes relationships and make it more beautiful which we never expected. You, me and we all want love in our life we can't live without love. At some point of time we need someone beside us  whom you can share everything, your dreams, goals, weakness and much more. you just'can't live alone whole life, sometime when you are alone or u just rejected by material world at this time you desperately need that someone special by your side. i have already talked much about that someone special  whom you dream every night, whom you feel every time but have you ever thought if you  found your love what will keep your love by your side forever? what is required for keeping flame of love burning forever? many of us never asks these questions while choosing that someone special.

we never ask because we blindly trust on love  and on the person whom we have already given our heart. You all know, many relationships got bitter and vulnerable after sometime, in the beginning we all lost in the world of love where you couldn't find any fault, you just want to love. After sometime when you get to know the person properly then reality suddenly confronted by both of you. suddenly you started  thinking what wrong u did or regretting for the decisions you made in your love life. Here i am talking about a reality which can't be noticed by us in the beginning but when it comes in front of you at that movement you can't change anything, you left with only one option either ignore reality or face it. we all  have to face it one day, the reality i am talking is a hidden personality of a person which  normaly doesn't shown by an individual , it will be exposed later   in the front of people whom with you have been living for a long time and they know each and every detail of your life. Those people are chosen by us called as 'life partners' once your hidden part got revealed it become tougher to deny it. we all have good as well as bad habits in us and many of us afraid from showing negative part of our personality to our loved ones. A person who really loves you will accept you as you are means accepting good and bad habits happily. if you really love someone and want relationship works longer you have to expose your hidden part in the beginning of relationships then when you got married your partner   will able to tolerate your ugly part of personality and love you as he used to.

death..a gift by god

you already got an idea from the title i have given to my article that is death. Ya here i am talking about the most concerning subject in our life or the most unlikable. we all are living continue since we born on this earth, when we born we don't know about what will happen ahead? a toddler comfortably sleeps in    mother's lap without thinking about our future.when we grown up fear of death haunt all of us, we don't want to loose our life, our family, friends some of us holds different perspective towards life they doesn't live in a fear of dying they enjoy every movement of life but fear of loosing loved ones haunts us badly you can't deny it. Suppose member of your family or a person who is closer to you is dying due to illness or from any other reason your heart throbs badly in a  each movement you feel the pain of your loved one, when victim passed away your pain increases rapidly and you just can't stop thinking about that person, you feel something precious  has gone and never come back. You consider a death a loss which cannot be fulfilled ever but the question is why are you calling it a loss, is it really a loss because you were not expecting it? or u didn't know it will ever face by the person you loved. the day we born, day of our death already predicted by the god we can't change our destiny.  'loss' is a phrase is used when it effects our life badly and due to this loss you will never able to live a life again which you used to live. but in this case after demise we again become capable for living a normal life with people around us.It is our tendency to forget a person who is gone and never come back to you despite many of us still crying,sobbing for the dead people who used to live with us sometime ago. Think deeply about it, if we are born we have to leave this earth one day, its a rule made by god and we should have respect it. when human being dies there is something he get rid of, our world is full of wanted and unwanted things, it offers you many choices but the time would come when you will not have any choices you have to accept it(death). when the time finally arrive  you are not longer a resident of this earth, u r leaving your good as well as bad habits, no boundation of ill human body, no thoughts, no feeling just drifting apart from everything you owned, loved, hated. At this time pray to god 'o god i am coming to you, finally it is happening i will not complain for granting  pain to my body for taking soul  out of it, i just want you to provide strength to my people who will cry for me, provide them emotional stability so that they would be able to forget the pain of separation" death is not beautiful gift but its a gift given by god to us because it is made by god, a gift which take your body and convert you into a faultless soul which is going where it has originated.